Links of the Week

First time here? Welcome! So, most weeks, I post this lil “Links of the Week” post on articles or other things I find online that I am absolutely compelled to share!! Hope you find something here that moves you in some way, even if it’s just to a smile. :)

As my friend Jody said, here’s a good reason why every business needs a mythologist on staff: 7 Horrifying Historical Origins of Famous Corporate Logos

The week’s cutest news: Tiniest Chameleon, Brookesia Micra, Discovered On Madagascar Island

The week’s creepiest news: How Target Figured Out A Teen Girl Was Pregnant Before Her Father Did

So, I usually share links because they’re awesome. This week, I have something to share that I’m not supportive of! While browsing my campus bookstore, I saw this darling notebook with a cover that said “Choose to be Green.” I thought it was awesome! But then I noticed something… there was no recycle symbol anywhere. Though the product was promoting green, it wasn’t green! Therefore, I’m sharing this Choosey Chicks links to encourage you not to buy any of their products. They promote some positive ideas – choose peace, choose change, choose strength – but they are only out for profit. As far as I can see, they aren’t attempting to make any changes, at least not for the environment.

But, I’d like to end on a happy note, so I recommend you go here to learn more about Peace Sounds, a beautiful album that will soothe you and provide a donation to Thich Nhat Hanh’s current tour.

Namaste.

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Documentary Recommendation: I AM

I’ve heard it’s a sign from the universe when more than one person recommends something to you. After a few suggestions to see the documentary I AM, I added it to my Netflix queue. It sounded interesting, but I had no idea what I was in for! This documentary made me cry and laugh. I was moved and inspired. It shows us very real problems in this world, but it also offers a very beautiful solution. (I won’t give any spoilers).

What is unique about this film isn’t the centuries old ideas about compassion and cooperation, but the scientific approach it offers. One interviewee offers, “Science is finally catching up with religion.” And, really, the religious notions that come up the most resemble the Eastern traditions. A lot of what came up in this documentary is synonymous with ideas I’m learning in my Buddhist Traditions course.

American ideologies of independence and success are unhealthy – for the individual and the collective. In I AM, Tom Shadyac shows how we are hard-wired for compassion and how we can make a difference in this world – one small act a time.

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Valentine’s Day

With Valentine’s day quickly approaching, I thought I’d muse on this Hallmark greeting card day a bit….

I attended one private school for grades K-8. If anyone brought Valentines to school, they had to bring them for every classmate. So, fairness abounded. When I was really little, this was all just cute and fun. But, around 5th grade or so, you also had the option to purchase Valentine Grams that were delivered to the classrooms. I never got one… until 7th grade. It was from a secret admirer. My heart was a flutter. Then I learned our teacher thought she was doing us a favor by sending these to those of us who weren’t receiving them from other students. Ouch. I think it must have been around this time that I started to get bitter about Valentine’s Day.

Enter high school. Freshmen Valentine came and went. But then I had a boyfriend during Sophomore year. I got him a few little goodies and put them in his locker (I had his spare key). I was tickled and couldn’t wait to see what he got me. But he didn’t get me anything. And he didn’t really say anything about what I got him. Epic fail. Bitterness grew stronger. Junior year I was single again. And really rather pissy about the whole Valentine extravaganza. But it was that year that I got the sweetest Valentine – my best girlfriend at the time had a balloon bouquet delivered to me in one of my classes with a sweet note. We were both single, and she got how rough the holiday could be. It was a super sweet gesture.

Enter college. I had a boyfriend when Valentine’s day came around my first year. But I was actually really peeved at him because he spent a lot of money on me when I had asked him to keep within the same small budget I was. It wasn’t the greatest relationship, so this big gesture just didn’t fly with me, I guess.

Then I had several more single Valentine’s days. Though, it’s much easier when you’re out of high school and not at a campus flooded with heart decor and PDAs. Though I do remember when I was in my early 20s my best friend and I were both single, and she decided to have a Black Valentine’s Day party for all the single girls. It was going to be an awesome bitterfest. But, before the plans went under way, she went and got herself a boyfriend. The party never happened.

Really, it’s a silly holiday. And the pressure it puts on you – especially in those angsty teen years – is rather unfair. I never felt like I needed to be in a relationship, and I was fine when I was single. Until the big V-day came – then I always felt excluded. The holiday for everyone who had what I didn’t.

You’d think after all this, as I grew up, I’d just grow to dismiss it as the silly day it is. That I’d grow to recognize that we celebrate love every day and there’s no need to put up paper hearts and swap out fluffy gifts. But, that didn’t happen. Now that I’m married I love Valentine’s day more than ever. I still feel bad for all the kids/teens that won’t get that special gift from that special someone they haven’t met yet… and I don’t know how I’ll address the holiday when I’m a parent. But for now, despite the fact that – I think – I’m a relatively grounded, mature grown up…. I love every ridiculous pink inch of it. Flowers, balloons, cards, small trinkets, kisses, stuffed monkeys, you name it. My dad makes fun of me every year. Fortunately, my hubby indulges me.

And now I’ll tell you about the best Valentine’s Day with my hubby. When we were engaged, I was sick on V-Day. He called in sick and didn’t go to work because he said I shouldn’t be home alone and sick on V-Day. Awwwww. Then he went to the store to get me some more cold meds. He came back with all the right goodies! Here it is:

I know it’s a silly day. And I fear it can harvest some relatively shallow thoughts about love…. But I hope you enjoy it with whomever you have, or just dismiss it because it really is silly! I hope no one is feeling lonely this Valentine’s day. It would be nice, I think, if it focused on more than romantic love, because we all do have great love operating in our lives.

xoxo

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Winter in Carpinteria, CA

It’s been a blessed, beautiful week at school!

Photos © Mythgirl

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Some levity

I have a nickname that most of my friends spell as Nix.

I just learned that Nix is a satellite orbiting Pluto. Cool. I’ll own that!

 

Alternatively, the friend that coined this nickname for me spells it Nyx.

A while back I learned Nyx is the goddess of the night.

 

Pretty! I’ll own that too!

I have always had fun with nicknames.

You have to be careful though, sometimes, with your real name.

I wonder if anyone has Googled me and found my doppleganger by mistake. ;)

 LOL. Just indulging in some silliness in the midst of a busy week!

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Meditation & Mindfulness

I am currently enrolled in a Buddhist Traditions course, and today I will be presenting my reflection on Thich Nhat Hanh’s book Old Path White Clouds. Such a beautiful, deep text! It was hard to choose one aspect to reflect on only four minutes. Below is my reflection along with the images from the power point I will share through my classmates. You might recognize these photographs from the slideshow I posted last year after I visited Deer Park Monastery.

In Old Path White Clouds, Thich Nhat Hanh masterfully discusses meditation, mindfulness, and other key concepts of Buddhism. In over five-hundred pages, he guides readers on a path with the Buddha, allowing for a deep experience in the reading of the text. Of the many elements presented in Old Path White Clouds, two key ideas stand out: meditation and mindfulness. Ultimately, these notions can be seen as two sides of the same coin. Meditation fosters mindfulness, and mindfulness cultivates meditation.

Utilizing the voice of the Buddha, Thich Nhat Hanh emphasizes the importance of meditation, which “will bring peace to your heart” (69), “nourish body and mind and provide the strength needed to pursue the path to enlightenment” (105). The deep importance and power of meditation is most aptly demonstrated in the Buddha’s attainment of Enlightenment. It is important to note that the Buddha was dedicated to meditation both before and after enlightenment. As the popular Zen proverb reminds us: “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” Enlightenment was pivotal in Siddhartha’s transformation to the Buddha, but it does not change the things he must do to continue nourishing his spiritual life and teach those around him.

Through Enlightenment, the Buddha found the answer to his quest for learning how to live in a world that contains suffering. In meditation, Buddha discovered that suffering comes from wrong thinking. It is through meditation and practices of mindfulness that one can overcome wrong thinking and see the reality of impermanence and inter-being, other important principles in Buddhism. The way to achieve both meditation and mindfulness is by bringing awareness to the present moment. This is an important ability because “Life can be found only in the present moment . . . Once you know how to return to the present moment, you will become awakened, and at that moment, you will find your true self” (163).

In an important passage on pages 514-515 in Old Path White Clouds, the Buddha offers ten ways that “happiness can be realized in this very life,” (514) including “[l]earn[ing] how to meditate in order to release sorrows and anxieties” (515). There is a very circular nature in the concepts presented by the Buddha. By being in the moment, one can experience life and one’s true self. By taking care of one’s self, one can take care of others. In tending to others, one is also tending to the self. By meditating, one learns how to be mindful. Through being mindful and focusing only on the present moment, one can move into meditation. All these elements work together in a powerful way that reciprocally aids the self, others and nature (which are not separate, as taught through the concept of inter-being): “By nourishing awareness in the present moment, you can avoid causing suffering to yourself and those around you. The way you look at others, your smile, and your small acts of caring can create happiness” (513). Mindfulness and meditation are keys to fostering and sharing happiness. Through this path of happiness, one also finds peace, understanding (of self and others), and acceptance (of suffering and impermanence).

What is truly wonderful about meditation and mindfulness is that they can be practiced on a daily basis and in any location. Furthermore, one does not have to be Buddhist in order to participate in these practices or benefit from them. They offer universal truths that can facilitate great change in everyone’s lives. Last year, I had the opportunity to attend two dharma talks by Thich Nhat Hanh and to join with many others in a guided meditation walk he led at Deer Park Monastery in Escondido, California. As I read Old Path White Clouds, I could hear his voice and feel the sense of peace that he so beautifully radiates. I see meditation and mindfulness as a symbiotic process that is having a powerful effect on my life.

And now I would like to leave you with a final quote from Old Path White Clouds:

“If you want to see the essence of a lotus flower, you must see the lotus present in all the dharmas normally thought of as non-lotus, such as the sun, pond water, clouds, mud, and heat. Only by looking in this way can we tear asunder the web of narrow views, the web of mental discrimination which creates the prisons of birth, death, here, there, existence, non-existence, defiled, immaculate, increasing and decreasing . . . reality in itself cannot be expressed by conceptual knowledge or by written and spoken language. Only the understanding which meditation brings can help us recognize the essence of reality” (466-467).

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Links of the Week

There’s been some great online goodies this week!

First up, zombies continue to plague the internet. ;) Learn about a course you can actually take here: Prepping for apocalypse: Zombie survival course in Portland or look for like-minded zombies on this dating website: ZombieHarmony

On a more serious note, things are looking up for mother nature. First of all, Fungi Discovered In The Amazon Will Eat Your Plastic. Now we just have to figure out how to get it in our landfills! And also, good endangered species news: Endangered Green Turtle Baby Boom Breaks 28-year Record. Elsewhere in the universe, we’ve got this going on: “Alien” Particles Found Invading Our Solar System—A First.

Now this may not be news to some of you, but I just learned that there are guide horses! Yep, just like guide dogs, but swapped out for a miniature horse! This is incredible! I’ve always been impressed with service dogs. I did not know any other animals were up to the task. You can learn all about it at the Guide Horse Foundation.

For my fellow bookworms, here’s a fun list to peruse: The Greatest Books of All Time, As Voted by 125 Famous Authors. And here’s some amazing “book porn”! The 20 Most Beautiful Bookstores in the World

For all you Big Bang Theory / Sheldon fans, yes, this is now available: Soft Kitty Singing Plush.

Finally, I’ll leave you with some ROTF humor from cutie John Stamos: John Stamos’ Guide to Cuddling. Enjoy!

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